By Daniel Rodriguez | Dr. Budgets
Life is short. Recently, I have been in a reflective mood because that has become very apparent to me. I started thinking about my life and whether I was living it the way I truly intended. The Dr. Budgets tagline is Spend Wisely. Live Wealthy.™, so I started thinking about it in terms of spending my time wisely to live wealthy because time is finite, and you can run out of it at any moment. Dr. Budgets takes a lot of my time, and I asked myself “Is it time well spent? Why am I doing this?” After much reflection, it turns out that I have a true passion for what I do, so I dug a little deeper to figure out why. Why am I so passionate about what we do at Dr. Budgets? I could help people in a variety of ways, so why money coaching?
The story of why I am so passionate about what I do for others through Dr. Budgets starts with why I do it for myself. My parents were divorced when I was very young, so I never knew anything different than having divorced parents. From the time I started school, I would be with one parent during the week and the other during the weekends, and every so often it would switch, which meant I would then switch schools (1st grade with my dad, 2nd-4th grade with my mom, etc.). When I was 12 and heading into 7th grade, my dad ran into hard financial times… his business failed, so money became very tight. My mom wasn’t making very much either, but she made it work while she was attending school at UCSD. To make ends meet, my dad decided to move to Rosarito, Mexico, which meant that for 7th grade I was going to switch schools again, but now to a different country. We also moved to a very poor part of town, so the house we lived in had no hot water (bathing in the winter was torture), broken windows, and was bug infested. Luckily, we always had food, but sometimes it was rice, beans, and tortillas several days in a row. This transition was very hard for me as a 12-year-old boy, and I would look forward to going to my mom’s house on the weekends… a house with first world amenities, like hot showers! After I finished 7th grade, my dad moved to Tijuana, Mexico where I attended 8th and 9th grades. The place in Tijuana was in an even poorer neighborhood (we now lived in an RV on somebody else’s property and used an outhouse). Those were the hardest three years of my life, and I believe those years shaped the view I have of money and the world to this day.
I realized that the reason I choose to spend my money wisely is so that I never end up in the same financial predicament as my dad. Being free of debt and having money in the bank gives me comfort and the freedom to live how I choose to live, and it means that I (or my kids) never have to live the way I did for those three years. I carry that same passion for finances to my clients because I want them to have the freedom to choose how they want to live, and to never have to face the type of decision my dad had to make. I see so many people who are slaves to their jobs because they are living paycheck-to-paycheck. I want to change this so that they feel like they have a choice to be whom they want to be and do what they want to do.
Life is too short to live otherwise, so that is why I started Dr. Budgets.
That is why every person who transforms their habits because of the money coaching they receive equals a better life for them, and maybe also for their children. Which means their children will never go through what I went through.
So that is why I do what I do. Why do you do what you do? I would love to hear your story. Please share it with me in the comments section below! If you know someone who is ready to improve their spending habits, please have them contact us today. Thanks for reading!
That’s a very touching story, Daniel. Having a bigger “why” than yourself is so important when life gets tough. My “why” are my parents, who worked so hard to provide the life I’m able to live, study, and now have the ability to work!
How wonderful you are Daniel. I had no idea. I knew you wanted to help people but I had no idea there were such hard times. I am so happy for you that you achieved your goals and can live the life you want to live for yourself and your family. You’re one of the best guys I know, thank you for sharing your story! I can’t say that my job is connected to what I want to do, I am just doing it for salary and benefits and don’t really know what else to do that would make me enough money. But I do know for sure that life is short and I want to prioritize being happy over a career, and I really hate wasting time, because my mother survived cancer twice once when I was 4 and once when I was 17. So I lived a very different life for better or worse, lots of fear of loss still stays with me, but the need and urgency to make your life what you want it to be was ingrained in me from a very young age and I am happy about that. Unfortunately what my life is and what I want it to be are two different things right now, and my big attempt to fulfill that back when I lived in Australia in ’05 turned out to be the catalyst for years of debt, but at least it was and will forever be worth every penny. And I am out of debt now so that time is behind me. I guess whatever we have been through has shaped us and continues to be a valuable source of learning, so there’s that 🙂 Much love, Megan
Daniel, Your “why”— is so compelling . Our experiences shape our values and beliefs.
My story is very different, but we share some parallels– experiencing and living in third world countries. Having been raised most of my formative years in Latin America, the issues of poverty are deeply ingrained.
It has made me a better listener, less judgmental, care more about people and their problems and challenges. It has made me more able to understand another world view. I am very grateful for the privileges in my life. I hope that I can improve the lives of the people i work with in some small way– so that they too and appreciate the meaning of gratitude and the importance of our interconnectedness.
Thank you for sharing your story!